We are sometimes consumed by our own selfishness, and that's alright... we are humans. Sometimes this selfishness becomes us, and we don't realize anymore that what we want is a form of selfishness.
As humans we reproduce, its the way it is... but hv we once thought, why do we want kids? as easily as saying 'shit happens' when things dun go our way, we say 'its jz a part of life' to have kids... but hv we once stopped and wonder... what good does it do to the kid by bringing him to the world?
The world is a dark place... no matter how much you say 'it depends on how we see it', the world has its dark corners... no matter how good we raise the kids we hv brought to this world, they r bound to share those dark corners at the end...
Pain, suffering, betrayal, lies, drugs, murders... all awaits for this innocent soul... and though through all that thus the soul evolve n grow, but is it worth it?
All has reasons and all is good... God made us and told us to occupy the world... but when u decide to have a kid with ur partner... is it this message of God that brings u to tht decision? or is it ur feeling n wanting to have sm1 or ur blood to continue ur family?
is it the thought of a baby to company u n cheer u up after work?
is it the thought of a kid to save ur marriage?
is it that thought that u want a son to continue ur business?
is it because u c others having their kids?
is it because the smile their kids bring to them, u want it too?
is it the thought of having ur kids to take care of u when u r old?
having a child is a blessing indeed... its a gift from God...It is a miracle...
but to have a child just to satisfy ur need... to satisfy ur wantings...isnt that a selfish thought? a selfish act?
A child when born, has his own soul n destiny.... we thought them all we know n all he needs to know... but at one point we gotta let that child go to fulfill his own destiny... not tell him to fulfill our wishes...
children are not puppets of their parents....
-RandoMind-
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