Fairy Tales

To feel or not to feel, to love or not to love... i think its all a choice...

Since we were a child, we hv been fed with fairy tales of love and relationships. The prince n the damsel in distress. Then as we grow, we r fed with romantic comedies, drama series, heart breaking novels, etc. And so we grow up with an idea of true love and a perfect relationship.

But the world don't work that way, the universe is magical; yes! but behind the magic is a simple science. For most things, since olden age, our ancestors believe that thoughts can materialize. Thus, the saying careful what u wish for. And now the Neo-physics, the study of neotic science is close to proving that our thoughts sends energy and in fact could materialize.

But we are talking about love... in the case of love, y and how do people fall in love?

The basic science is simple; we look for what we like, what we imagine we want, we look for comfort, we look for a connection. In most cases, when we meet sm1 n hv the same interests, its easy to claim we hv fallen in love because its comfortable... its easy.. doing the same thing and enjoying it together.

Then when we meet sm1 with a striking beauty... a feature that perhaps in our childhood we hv once admired... in an instant we would chase tht figure.

In some cases, scientists made a discovery that while choosing a partner, primals look for the features or their descends. For example, a male would be more attracted to a girl with curly hair than the one with straight hair (even if she is prettier) when he has an image of his kid having curly hair. And so on..

After the first phase of the chase n excitement of meeting sm1 tht fulfills the criteria tht we have, which we call as infatuation phase, we then have the trial of living. And when this certain sm1 has the characteristics tht fits in our daily life style and we grow accustom to them... we decided, we r definitely in love and we cnt live without them.

And then comes the bond and commitment. Humans are, in general, fearful being. We are afraid to get too attached because we are afraid of losing. So to ensure that we dun lose this person tht fits in our lives so well, to ensure our territory, we tie the knot. Although marriage never gives a 100% percent guarantee of togetherness till death parts them, but the illusion that it might is enough for us to live with our partners.

So back to true love... is when u meet n be with the person u imagined u wanna be with n tht person feels the same... and perfect relationship is where these 2 fills in the blanks of each other's life..

so there... the simple science of love :)

-Rambles of the RandoMind-